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Manufacturer: Running Press
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Binding: Paperback
Dewey Decimal Number: 920
EAN: 9780786720965
ISBN: 0786720964
Label: Running Press
Manufacturer: Running Press
Number Of Items: 1
Number Of Pages: 296
Publication Date: 2008-06-09
Publisher: Running Press
Studio: Running Press
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The most successful African American in gay adult film, Bobby Blake has appeared in over one hundred movies. In My Life in Porn, Blake for the first time goes behind the scenes of the sex industry to reveal intimate stories that are sexy, fascinating, and sometimes disturbing. Blake also shares his private spiritual struggle and the quest for love.
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Summary: Superficial and Boring!
Comment: I would have thought that the last thing a book about a porn star would be is boring! But this poorly written and badly edited offering is like taking sleeping pills and then going to the opera. There are no revealed secrets, no juicy insider revelations, very little sexual titillation, and absolutely no self examination.
If anything this book is full of self delusion. I found it interesting that throughout the book the author refers to others, in passing, as "Hos" ,and decries "Whorish" behavior. Yet he seems not to appreciate that the "escorting" he depended on so much is simply a nice term for prostitution. He never looks in the mirror to see the true whore reflected back at him. He is totally blind to the obvious anger deep within him that propells him to agressive and sometimes violent sex play. He simply explains this as his trademark "style". He makes all types of strange choices even before he becomes a pornstar; his explantion for all this is silly. The most glaring lapse is his failure to see that the same exhibitionism that led him to stand up as a southern preacher, may have lead him to the hyper-exhibitionism of the porn business.
There are a few things in the book to commend the author; most noticeably his committment to fighting AIDS in the Black community, and his warning to young black gay men to be cautious before rushing into the porn business. While this book did not make for a good bedtime read; I would not, if I had a chance, kick Bobby Blake out of bed.
This book was obviously written to make a quick buck. In this I wish the author well. I wish him well in the new career path he is now following. One day he may actually be able to write a truthful honest memoir. That day is not now.
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Summary: Great Book - You Must Read!
Comment: Bobby Blake (Edgar Gaines) is a very interesting person. Of course,
he looks good! However, this book allows the reader to get to know
Edgar Gaines, the person.
I had the opportunity to meet and talk with Edgar very briefly
about ten years ago. I hope I will have the chance to talk with him
in person again someday!
Anyone who has enjoyed watching Bobby Blake movies should also enjoy
this great book!
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Summary: Poorly Written and Somewhat Sketchy
Comment: I absolutely adore Bobby Blake's "work," and as a young gay brotha I truly thought that reading about his story would be interesting, thought provoking and well informative. I was immediately taken back by the poor sentence structure of the novel. It is very hard and somewhat insulting to read a book that reads at such a remedial level. While I was not expecting a scholar's voice to come through, I thought that book would atleast read as if someone who completed high school constructed the biographical sketch.
I found some of the events in the book to be unrealistic and sensationalized. I finished the book in one day, hoping that as I continued my reading that it would get better. Extremely dissapointed and do not recommend you to waste your money...even if it is ONLY $10 at the present.
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Summary: More than just Porn
Comment: Bobby Blake is a very interesting person, and that is revealed in his memoir. Although the memoir is written with British writer John R. Gordon, the voice of Blake is clearly in this work. Despite the stereotyping of porn stars, Blake is very intelligent, insightful and political. After hearing him in interviews, it is obvious that the man is quite articulate. This work is a candid look at his private life as well as his career in porn, and he makes it clear that working in porn was a career, and not the beginning and end of his personality. Blake allows the reader to see the person, or alter ego, of the porn persona, and one will find that interesting, controversial and enlightening. Blake provides a very insightful look at the porn industry, and this is very welcomed from a black person's point-of-view. Much of the literature about pornography is about white porn stars, written from a white point-of-view, which rarely handles any discussion of race. In addition, Blake explains his decisions made personally and professionally. I respect that he doesn't name individuals (unless they are already well known in the porn industry, for instance) because the work is about his life, not theirs. If there is a major message in this memoir, it is that by stereotyping people, and putting them in boxes, you don't realize the full spectrum of those various personalities. He is still a young man, and one might wonder if he decided to write this work too soon. Even so, the work is well timed, and include a wealth of information.
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Summary: THOUGHTFUL, INSIGHTFUL, AND OVERALL GOOD READ!
Comment: I enjoyed reading this book a lot. I did find myself re-reading many paragraphs to get the meaning correct--not that it was a confusing read, but instead I wanted to make sure I understood where the author was coming from. Mr. Blake took a big risk exposing himself like this, letting his feelings and vulnerabilities out for all to see.
Regarding the first few chapters, I really enjoyed reading about the many forces that came together to shape him. Everyone has a story to tell about how they came to be who they are. I personally always enjoy learning about what makes a person, any person, tick, but I found Mr. Blake's story much different from what I expected.
Throughout the book there were many sad moments, and while I didn't mind reading about them, I had to stop reading a few times because things like remembering different friends/family dropping like flies in the 80s, the pains of breakups, let-downs by friends, etc.
His thoughts on church and religion were particularly well written. It made me think: Can you imagine what would happen to so many of these churches if every gay and lesbian, bi and transgendered person just got up and left???? I have been for a good church over the years because of this, and am still looking for a good fit for me in NYC that is inclusive without me having to part of an exclusively gay congregation.
I found the porn industry chapters fascinating. These are the parts of the book I had to read twice, particularly the rivalry chapters (Bam, Tiger Tyson, etc.). At first I thought, "is this guy for real? he seems a bit full of himself" but after re-reading it, its not that at all. In business, regardless of the industry, you have to be smart, sometimes ruthless, and cunning. God gave us wisdom and cleverness to work our way through the minefields of life. This is exactly what Mr. Blake's done, and in spades! Well done.
It's great that he wrote about how he stood up for himself within the porn industry. Some people are naive enough to believe that in the porn industry, people are so liberal and open-minded that they are all passed the racist and ethnic hatred and bias found in other industries. His book is an important tool for the young ones looking to get into the industry, a reminder that things have changed, but not completely, and the best defense is a strong sense of self, confident and proud.
But the chapters about Flexx-Deon were very sad. I'm glad he wrote about the experience, and I hope people don't think its just him "throwing him under the bus" as they say. I don't know Mr. Flexx-Deon so I won't put his life o the spot, but speaking in broader terms it's true that so many gay guys don't plan for their future, particularly hispanic and black gays. They don't spend their money properly. They don't think about their needs 10 years from now, or even 10 weeks from now, living check-to-check. They don't think about what will happen if they lose their jobs ( guess they move back home or live with family or friends), or what happens if a family member becomes ill and is unable to care for him or herself. We live in such a self-absorbed world now. Perhaps with some luck some of these guys will read Mr. Blake's book, so they can see themselves from the outside in, and realize that they are not just doing damage to themselves, but end up leaving a long trail of collateral damage in the form of loves ones.
Of all parts of the book, I liked the ending the most. It shows Mr. Blake having come full circle--literally, since he's living in the house he spent many of his early years in.
Well done, Mr. Blake.
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